Better Together Apart
Better Together Apart is a podcast where Eli and Aiden—ex-husbands who made a commitment to stay lifelong friends—share their journeys of finding love after love. In their mid-40s, they spent 20 years together before separating, yet they continue to co-parent their two daughters under the same roof. Now, both are searching for a meaningful relationship with the right man to share the next chapter of their lives. With honesty, humor, and raw vulnerability, Eli and Aiden explore what it means to be single gay dads navigating the modern dating world after two decades away from it. They dive into topics like dating in your 40s, dating as a parent, open relationships and other types of customized relationships, religious and cultural differences, long-distance relationships, age gaps, sexual compatibility, and more. No topic is off-limits as they decode the complexities of dating in today’s digital era—all while maintaining a supportive, healthy friendship as exes. Better Together, Apart is more than a podcast about dating—it’s about redefining love, family, and partnership in a way that works.
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Episodes
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
When backgrounds don’t match, can love still thrive? In this episode, we explore the complexities of dating across religious and cultural lines. From navigating family expectations to honoring your identity while embracing someone else’s, we share real stories and insights on what it takes to build bridges instead of walls.
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Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
What happens when you and your ex… end up dating the same guys? In this episode, we unpack the wild, hilarious, and surprisingly revealing stories of navigating a shared dating pool. From awkward overlaps to unexpected insights, we explore what it means to date—and grow—side by side.
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Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart
Monday Jun 16, 2025
Monday Jun 16, 2025
It’s story time! In this episode, we share some of our most memorable dating experiences—the good, the bad, and the totally unexpected. From awkward firsts to surprising connections, join us as we laugh, cringe, and reflect on what it really means to put yourself out there again.
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Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Is love enough when you're living in different time zones? In this episode, we explore the challenges and unexpected strengths of long-distance relationships. From communication tips to emotional resilience, we unpack what it really takes to make love work—when you're far apart but still deeply connected.
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Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart
Wednesday Jun 04, 2025
Wednesday Jun 04, 2025
It’s story time! In this episode, we share some of our most memorable dating experiences—the good, the bad, and the totally unexpected. From awkward firsts to surprising connections, join us as we laugh, cringe, and reflect on what it really means to put yourself out there again.
Follow us on Instagram @wearebettertogetherapart
https://www.instagram.com/wearebettertogetherapart/
Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Dating apps can feel like a whole new universe—especially in your 40s. In this episode, we dive into the awkward, hilarious, and sometimes hopeful world of swiping. From crafting your profile to decoding the DMs, we share real talk on finding connection (or at least a decent first date) in the digital age.
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Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Ready to re-enter the dating scene after years in a committed relationship? In this episode, we share candid advice and personal experiences on how to navigate dating in the modern world—while staying true to yourself. From dating apps to first dates, let’s figure out this new chapter together.
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Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
In this debut episode, we unpack the highs and lows of sharing a home with your former partner. From setting boundaries to finding moments of peace (and even humor!), we explore practical tips and personal stories on how to stay sane when you're living together apart.
Follow us on Instagram @wearebettertogetherapart
https://www.instagram.com/wearebettertogetherapart/
Watch us on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreBetterTogetherApart